Introverts.

A famous saying goes-

Introversion is not a choice, it’s not a lifestyle but an orientation.

Intorverts! Often called as rude, blunt, arrogant or shy people.But trust me! They are not rude, blunt or shy. They are reserved. Maybe they are not comfortable around people as others are. They do not always want to be surrounded by people but they don’t hate people.Around few close ones, these introverts are as good and as free as extroverts themselves.

Most of the time we tend to misunderstand introverts.Its not that they don’t need anyone. They re just too conserved to be able to express that need. Since introverts are human beings at the end of the day, they need love.Since my best friend and my sibling are introvert beings.I know a little about them.

They are really good listeners. They understand more than we think and they observe more than we can ever know. It’s just that they don’t react immediately. And above all, they feel more than we imagine.

So, friends, specially, introvert friends-.  Being an introvert is not negative.Everybody has two faces out of which one is a reserved one.Their reserved face is hidden.So, you are none different.You just choose to show your reserved face to everyone.You are as much needed and wanted in our society as extroverts are.

With love.

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119 thoughts on “Introverts.

  1. A learning poet

    It feels like you have pulled out my soul and extracted everything it wanted to say. Being introvert is sometimes difficult. Okay I will make it ‘most of the times’. But I think that every introvert needs a friend like you with whom they can be whatever they wish to be. And also I feel that no one is a forced introvert or a forced extrovert. It just happens. We can either understand them. Or if we can’t, it is better to ignore.

    I am very happy you brought this topic. It was really necessary. I am very proud of you. Proud and happy by realising that someone is there in this world who feels for people like me. 😊😊😊😊 Keep it up Bobo… 😘😘😘 It was amazing…

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    1. Heart to soul. Post author

      You were in my mind when I was writing this. You have all the freedom to be yourself despite of what others feel or say. Just because you are a little unique amongst the circle , dosent mean you can be disrespected. I love you. Stay the way you are. 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘I am very very proud of you.

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  2. Mehul Singla

    Being an introvert myself I agree with every word of yours.. People sometimes misunderstand us by calling us rude or arrogant. It’s not easy being an introvert but I still love that I am one of them.. Proud to be a introvert…

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    1. tiwiam

      Be who you are. Embrace all sides of your personality when you need to. Be who you are. Introverts have an advantage that they get to think over everything because of this attitude. They can analyse the situation nicely whereas extroverts can make wrong decisions because they are always too spontaneous.

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  3. Sangbad

    Its my pleasure to have you as one of my follower…thanks for this article…will reblog it soon to spread this beautifully written piece…
    PS Am introvert in meeting & all but an extrovert when it comes to writing…if you skim my Thoughts (my blog) you’ll know that…

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    1. Heart to soul. Post author

      Welcome to my blog sir! I am very very thankful to you for this kind of appreciation. It truly means alot.
      I followed your blog too. I loved “one rainy noon”. Will read more. Thank you so much. !

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    1. Heart to soul. Post author

      Hi ishita! I am too glad to hear that you are very happy. I am also very happy to hear that my post is the reason. You are introvert and that is kind of amazing. You people are wonderful beings. I hope you like my other posts too.! Thank you so much !

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      1. Sangbad

        I’m going to post this post on Introvert as the first guest post…so will I publish like this or you want to edit or want to rewrite some portion or sentence?
        By the way no need to call me Sir…you can call me by name…

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      2. Sangbad

        not to mention…meanwhile you can go through the section Let’s Talk in my blog to read some of my essays on varied topic of daily life…will like to read your reviews on them…

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    1. Heart to soul. Post author

      As far as I have heard about you, you are an introvert too. πŸ˜ƒ But you never made me feel so because you were always so kind and nice to me.
      I don’t know why I can connect with you so easily when I have not met you even once. Thanks a ton rueπŸ˜„

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  4. nathaswami

    In the follow up letters, some have admitted themselves to be introverts. But who labelled them as such? Did any psychologist test them? Introverts generally do not communicate with others. But one thing is certain. They are not as happy go lucky people as the extroverts.

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    1. Heart to soul. Post author

      You yourself gave a basis for one calling himself introverts. They generally don’t communicate with others. Dosent mean that they can’t express themselves . They express themselves in various other ways.

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  5. ujjwalrealblog

    U often told me being introvert z nt bad…People often criticise me telng me a socio-phobic bt dy dnt hv knowledge of introversion…I wl ask dm to read urs…u r gng to change hundreds of minds gal

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    1. Heart to soul. Post author

      Yes I still firmly believe that being introvert is not at all bad. Introverts, like you, are special beings, they exactly know how to react and how much to react at things and situations.
      They are not socio-phobic beings. They are not anti-social too. They just love to be in the company of their own self.

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    2. Heart to soul. Post author

      And I can write million more things about introvert. Anyways, you know, your comment means a lot. Surely, ask people to read this so they stop calling introverts names. Introverts are proudly introverts and nothing else.

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  6. sphericalinsight

    “Introvert” is a functional term. These people do exist , society may call them introvert because they are different; everybody is different. Reality is introverts are more open than extroverts, they haven’t opened up yet because they haven’t found that right person to open up to.

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    1. Heart to soul. Post author

      That was so sweet of you Harshit! When it comes from some amazing writers like you, it mean much more than a lot. Would love to have your opinions on my posts. Keep visiting!
      😊😊

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  7. Tayna

    I’m really impressed with your writing skills as well as with the layout on your weblog. Is this a paid theme or did you modify it yourself? Anyway keep up the nice quality writing, it is rare to see a nice blog like this one these days..

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  8. Shayra

    Thank you for sharing this content.Its pretty fits on me .Sometime we Introverts thinks that Why We are like this ?
    But can’t help bcoz its the part of our nature .Still its amazing to be like this.

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    1. Heart to soul. Post author

      Why and what do you need help for? You are the way you are. And it is perfect. You don’t have to change.
      You are amazing sort of people and the aim of the article was to let you know that. ☺️
      Keep visiting.

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      1. Shayra

        Thanks for such a beautiful and inspiring words.Yes,Thanks a lot.It will make us feel happy and inspired bcoz like me alk others think somewhere that We are little boring person.

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