A famous saying goes-
Introversion is not a choice, it’s not a lifestyle but an orientation.
Intorverts! Often called as rude, blunt, arrogant or shy people.But trust me! They are not rude, blunt or shy. They are reserved. Maybe they are not comfortable around people as others are. They do not always want to be surrounded by people but they don’t hate people.Around few close ones, these introverts are as good and as free as extroverts themselves.
Most of the time we tend to misunderstand introverts.Its not that they don’t need anyone. They re just too conserved to be able to express that need. Since introverts are human beings at the end of the day, they need love.Since my best friend and my sibling are introvert beings.I know a little about them.
They are really good listeners. They understand more than we think and they observe more than we can ever know. It’s just that they don’t react immediately. And above all, they feel more than we imagine.
So, friends, specially, introvert friends-. Being an introvert is not negative.Everybody has two faces out of which one is a reserved one.Their reserved face is hidden.So, you are none different.You just choose to show your reserved face to everyone.You are as much needed and wanted in our society as extroverts are.
With love.
It feels like you have pulled out my soul and extracted everything it wanted to say. Being introvert is sometimes difficult. Okay I will make it ‘most of the times’. But I think that every introvert needs a friend like you with whom they can be whatever they wish to be. And also I feel that no one is a forced introvert or a forced extrovert. It just happens. We can either understand them. Or if we can’t, it is better to ignore.
I am very happy you brought this topic. It was really necessary. I am very proud of you. Proud and happy by realising that someone is there in this world who feels for people like me. ππππ Keep it up Bobo… πππ It was amazing…
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You were in my mind when I was writing this. You have all the freedom to be yourself despite of what others feel or say. Just because you are a little unique amongst the circle , dosent mean you can be disrespected. I love you. Stay the way you are. πππππππI am very very proud of you.
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πππ you can’t measure my happiness right now. Thankyou literally. Someone has to say it. And I am proud that it is youπππ
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That’s me. And I agree that sometimes people misunderstand us. I’m quiet, but I’m not shy. A little slow to warm up, but I’m not arrogant. And I am free, just as you said, with a few close people. Good insight!
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Thank you so much.i am very happy you can relate . You can be yourself. No one should judge you. ππ
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Being an introvert myself I agree with every word of yours.. People sometimes misunderstand us by calling us rude or arrogant. It’s not easy being an introvert but I still love that I am one of them.. Proud to be a introvert…
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You should be. You have your own qualities as an introvert.
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Nice one. I feel if extroverts make an effort they can help introverts to become extroverts.
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Maybe yes..Thank you so much.
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Be who you are. Embrace all sides of your personality when you need to. Be who you are. Introverts have an advantage that they get to think over everything because of this attitude. They can analyse the situation nicely whereas extroverts can make wrong decisions because they are always too spontaneous.
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Completely on your side. Extroverts often make wrong decisions.
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You hit the nail on the head with this one…. ππππππππππππππππ
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That’s a huge compliment. Thank you so much.π
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Always!
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Very True.. Each and every word..!!
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Thank you so much ! π
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Thanks π
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Thanks for?
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For letting me know that I am not an antisocial psycho but an introvert π
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I am glad if I could do that. π
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I am glad to read your awesome post π
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Thank you so much! π
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Its my pleasure to have you as one of my follower…thanks for this article…will reblog it soon to spread this beautifully written piece…
PS Am introvert in meeting & all but an extrovert when it comes to writing…if you skim my Thoughts (my blog) you’ll know that…
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Welcome to my blog sir! I am very very thankful to you for this kind of appreciation. It truly means alot.
I followed your blog too. I loved “one rainy noon”. Will read more. Thank you so much. !
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You’re welcome Dear…
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I’m an introvert and this post made me very happy. Thank you for writing this. And glad to have you here. π
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Hi ishita! I am too glad to hear that you are very happy. I am also very happy to hear that my post is the reason. You are introvert and that is kind of amazing. You people are wonderful beings. I hope you like my other posts too.! Thank you so much !
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This need to be read by everyone so that we learn to accept everyone wholly.
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My intent of writing was that.!
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Planning to start a guest blog post series on my blog…want to open it with this blog of yours…could I? If you need editing or rewriting let me know…
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Wow…That is a superb idea. I will be very happy to be a part of that series.
How can I help sir?
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I’m going to post this post on Introvert as the first guest post…so will I publish like this or you want to edit or want to rewrite some portion or sentence?
By the way no need to call me Sir…you can call me by name…
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Okay. You can post this the way it is. Rather I would love if you can suggest some amendment. I’ll do it.
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There is no need of amendment from my end…I’ll rather post it with some pics only…is it okay?
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Sure…I feel ecstatic. Thanks a ton.!
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not to mention…meanwhile you can go through the section Let’s Talk in my blog to read some of my essays on varied topic of daily life…will like to read your reviews on them…
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Surely. I read most of them.
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I love the post and agree to all that you had to say! π
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Thanks a ton sweta! I hope you like my other works too. Keep reading.!
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Here it is Ma’am…redecorated a little…
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Thank you will be so little. Thank you for that big an exposure.it means alot for an immature writer like me. π
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not to mention, Ma’am…am just providing platform to the new-bees as well the experienced one…
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You are doing a great job. ^_^
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By the way you should comment on the comments by others of the guest post…I’ll not speak there as usual…come and have a talk with others…
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Yeah sure.!
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This is so true… I am myself an introvert, but I never considered it as a bad thing. In fact, I take pride in being one.
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That’s great. Introversion is an underrated concept. There is much more to it than anybody can ever know.
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I have been with lot of introverts and I still do. And the best part is that they all are for a keep. I enjoy a lot being with them. Well portrayed! ππ
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As far as I have heard about you, you are an introvert too. π But you never made me feel so because you were always so kind and nice to me.
I don’t know why I can connect with you so easily when I have not met you even once. Thanks a ton rueπ
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Heheh I’ve heard about the same thing a lot times. May be the reason is that you like to connect yourself to people.
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Yeah yeah…Kind of.! *_*
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In the follow up letters, some have admitted themselves to be introverts. But who labelled them as such? Did any psychologist test them? Introverts generally do not communicate with others. But one thing is certain. They are not as happy go lucky people as the extroverts.
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You yourself gave a basis for one calling himself introverts. They generally don’t communicate with others. Dosent mean that they can’t express themselves . They express themselves in various other ways.
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Would like to know more about introverts. That’ll be an interesting topic.
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Wonderful post!
Being an introvert, I can relate to every word of it .
God bless!
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Thank you so much akansha. Your comments boost me up. Really! Thanks a ton! Keep reading.
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One things for sure I being an xtreme extrovert have tried to be little less but failed but I am sure Introverts can be little more extrovert…..β€οΈ
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Introversion or extroversion is inherent. We can’t help it even if we try it hard. But yes, if introverts try, they can really break the shell and come out more social.
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Yes I do agree in totality π
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You speak minds. Thank you so much for this post. I really like this piece.
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Thank you so much dear.! Such appreciations make my day. *_* keep reading.
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U often told me being introvert z nt bad…People often criticise me telng me a socio-phobic bt dy dnt hv knowledge of introversion…I wl ask dm to read urs…u r gng to change hundreds of minds gal
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Yes I still firmly believe that being introvert is not at all bad. Introverts, like you, are special beings, they exactly know how to react and how much to react at things and situations.
They are not socio-phobic beings. They are not anti-social too. They just love to be in the company of their own self.
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And I can write million more things about introvert. Anyways, you know, your comment means a lot. Surely, ask people to read this so they stop calling introverts names. Introverts are proudly introverts and nothing else.
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Ha ha obviously I wl ask dm…n introverts evn want company like demselves…not sm over enthusiastic,unneccessarly spkng person….i too hate such typ of people
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Ahhh! I doubt if introverts will like my company in that case.
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I said unneccesary spkng…ha ha u caught it gal
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I am also an introvert and my friends call me arrogant,shy but I don’t care huh
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Okay! I laugh at their lack of knowledge about introverts. π you should not let it affect you.
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“Introvert” is a functional term. These people do exist , society may call them introvert because they are different; everybody is different. Reality is introverts are more open than extroverts, they haven’t opened up yet because they haven’t found that right person to open up to.
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So very true sir. I am amazed with your clear and pure thoughts. π
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Loved reading it, keep up the good work π
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Thank you Anjana.
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Well portrayed, not many understand introverts,sadly. Introverts are the misunderstood lot.
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So true.. Thank you for reading. π
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Welcome Bhavika π
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So right. Actually whether introvert or not people who matter in our life are accepted as they are
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Indeed mam! Thank you for reading.
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Yes ππ
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Thank you so much βΊοΈ
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Waah ye to bahut scchi baat likh diΰ₯€,
Etne cmmnts to pahle se aaye huae hai,mera cmment to gum ho jaayega esmeππ
Waise inspiring and powerful writingππ
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Every comment is special to me. And so is yours! Thank you so much! It truly means alot to me. βΊοΈ
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Its Plzure bhavu…bt u are having awsm followers…god blessπ
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Yeah! There is a lot of appreciation these days on my blog. I feel overwhelmed and honored. βΊοΈ
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your work is the reason…u write beautifullyπ
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Thats so sweet and friendly of you. Above that, I feel lucky to have an Amazing blog family here. βΊοΈ
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Same here…there are so mch loving and beautiful friends..with overwhelming response….awsm experienceπ
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True that be. βΊοΈ
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Wow.. this is like the best post Iβve read this week
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Wow! I am amazed by your comment dear! Keep visiting.! Thanks a lot! π God bless. βΊοΈ
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Just love love love this β€
Beautifully written π kudos β
I loved that line “They are reserve” and that quote too that you have mentioned in starting.
Great read ππ
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That was so sweet of you Harshit! When it comes from some amazing writers like you, it mean much more than a lot. Would love to have your opinions on my posts. Keep visiting!
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It’s my pleasure in reading such beautiful post ππ Thanks u 2 for giving me such amazing reads ππ
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Now you made my day! π
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We both made for each others β€β€β€
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Hahaha.. Let’s say so. π
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I was..
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Ohhh
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I am on “LINE”
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But i was haha ππ
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To whom what suits better
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I’m really impressed with your writing skills as well as with the layout on your weblog. Is this a paid theme or did you modify it yourself? Anyway keep up the nice quality writing, it is rare to see a nice blog like this one these days..
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Thank you for sharing this content.Its pretty fits on me .Sometime we Introverts thinks that Why We are like this ?
But can’t help bcoz its the part of our nature .Still its amazing to be like this.
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Why and what do you need help for? You are the way you are. And it is perfect. You don’t have to change.
You are amazing sort of people and the aim of the article was to let you know that. βΊοΈ
Keep visiting.
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Thanks for such a beautiful and inspiring words.Yes,Thanks a lot.It will make us feel happy and inspired bcoz like me alk others think somewhere that We are little boring person.
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No, trust me when I say introverts are the most interesting people
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Yes,I do dearπ
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Yes I do! You’ve got a really nice blog! Subtile posts, love them
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Wow! Thank you so much. Means alotπ
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The right explanation one needed to know!
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Thank you so muchπ
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I intended to convey my opinions about introversion. I am glad you liked it. π
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I felt related comleted to this post
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I am glad! Welcome to my blog. βΊοΈ
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Are you? Then welcome to the list of special people my dear. π
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