What’s with her? I asked pointing to a girl who was lost in her own space and was not even aware of the puppy who was licking her feet. They laughed and replied “she is just depressed.” JUST DEPRESSED. I doubt whether people really know what depression is? Had they been knowing how it deteriorates a normal being, they would definitely not call it “just depression.” Not going to scientific level, depression is confining someone in a room, with no windows, no sound, no light, and no other human. Likewise, depression is the stage of no hopes, no dreams, no believes, no desires and no life. It’s that serious an issue.
To all the people who are depressed for some reason- I know how it pains in the chest every morning you wake up and find that you are still alive. I know the hopelessness when you can’t figure out what is wrong with you. I know when you feel helpless because you don’t know what you need help for. I know when one day you can feel everything and the other day you feel nothing at all.
I know how you want to cry all day and night but not a single tear drop exits your eye. I know how it is when you are sitting, thinking and doing nothing and suddenly you feel tears striking your face. But trust me, it’s not your fault. It’s just a phase, and it will paas. Be with ones who love you. Hold onto them. Don’t be alone.
I really know the pain of being alive without knowing the reason. I know the irritation when people continuously complain about you being a sadist, a killjoy, a non enthusiastic person anymore. I know how it kills you when the people you need the most understand you the least.
Guys! These depressed people don’t need your sympathy, they need your support. Depression is fatal. It kills a person who is still breathing. Don’t laugh at them, instead prove your humor in making them laugh. And if your loved one is trapped, please let him/her know how much he is needed, loved and wanted. Please do little things to make him/her feel special. Little things occupy the biggest spaces in heart when done at the right time.
The person sliding to an invisible black hole needs a little light to come out before he gets comfortable there.
Helping someone come out of depression is like giving them a second life. Depression is not sadness, but it’s feeling nothing.
thank you for this post. it resonates deeply within me. i have felt the pangs. thank you and warmest wishes and regards.
Peace ✌
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Means a lot sir.. I am very happy with your acknowledgement. Keep reading. 🙂
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thank you again, ma’am.
Ps: I’m just Afzal, not ‘sir’ at all
keep well and may your ink-pot never run dry, so that we may continue to enjoy your wonderful pieces.
Peace ✌
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Oh! I am flattered Afzal! Continue reading so that I may continue to enjoy your wonderful comments.
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👍 thank you once again
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Wow… I am speechless. And dumbstruck. It hit me at the very correct point in my brain and woke all my numb nerves. I don’t feel very happy after reading this, because I know it is an effort from the person who is herself in slight shadow of depression (I hope it’s slight). I am proud of you. Not for WRITING this. But for writing THIS. You don’t even know how much it’s going to help others. For people like me, who are not in depression, it is a lesson as to how we should behave with people who are in depression. And for people who are actually facing it, it’s a motivation.
I am very very proud of you. I am really overwhelmed right now. I love you. Thank-you so much 😘😃
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Thank you so much. No, I am not depressed anymore. It’s all because of someone really special who helped me to come out of it. It’s really amazing when you are proud of me. Thank you for being an inspiration. I love you more. 💓😘
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🙂 :-* you know what. This was brave of you to bring this for us. I respect you even more. Not everybody is capable of managing their weaknesses with such grace. You are definitely one more step grown today. 🙂
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Clap clap clap…little miss, bravo….bravo…this post left me speechless….such a deep topic in such poignant tone….bravo….
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Thank you so much! Your comments always boost me up. Thank you for the read. 🙂
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Not to mention dear
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Yet another great post… Bhavika you are simply awesome… People like you would never be depressed 🤗
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That’s so sweet of you. But since I faced this stage I could write it so well.
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May you never face this dreadful scenario ever again..😊
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That’s so kind of you.!
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😃 Thank you so much..
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You just wrote the true meaning of depression. It’s just a phase notjing
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Thank you aanchal! Means a lot.!
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😇
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You just wrote the true meaning of depression. It’s just a phase which will eventually pass.
Great post.
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I don’t have words to say……nice sis u are adroit and virtuso in writing
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Thank you 🙂
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This is a necessary post. Happy you wrote it. Lucky I read it 🙂
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Hey Elsa.. That’s so kind of you to say. Welcome to my blog family. Hope you enjoy yourselves. Keep reading. 🙂 your feedbacks will be awaited.
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Sure Bhavika. I’m looking forward to it.
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Thank you, beautifully said.
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Thank you so much. Means a ton.! 🙂
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Only dose who have suffered cn understnd…I hv seen sm1 crying,panicking n hurting himself so I cn realise d pain…grt dat u put forth such a topic bcz often mental illness is a scar n d person z shunned by society n evn ostracised
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True that be. People choose to refuse depression as something serious. It is nearly fatal. And it takes people a lot of struggle to come out of it.
Your comment means a lot. And also, welcome back. Good to have your presence here. 🙂
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Ty so mch…
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Wonderful post..they sure don’t need sympathy. they need support. It’s just a phase..
the line…I really know the pain of being alive without a reason summed it all..👍
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Thank you so much. Your comment is a proof that you actually read the post with utmost attention and I can’t thank you enough for that. Truly means a lot.
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You’re welcome.
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Yeah…I’m sorry for reading your posts so late. Finally I’m here.
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Glad that you are back!
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Wonderful lines Bhabika
Carry on 🙏
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Thank you sir! Means a lot.! BTW it’s Bhavika*. Keep reading. *_*
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Exactly and I put my comment I got to know my mistake in spelling
Thanks
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No issues sir. *_*
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Hi Bhavika, I am quite amused to read your post. I am amazed to see that you summarized a complex phenomena in simplest of words.
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Hey Abhay, I do believe that hyped words complicates the message you want to convey. I wanted all sorts of people to read this post and “understand” it.
Thanks a ton for reading it. Reader’s opinions means alot. Thank you. 🙂
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Yes, and btw being simple is one of the the most complex things now these days.
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Totally accepted.
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Woooh!! Bhavika🤗
Amazing, mindblowing, superb, motivating….
I wrote all the words which I could not find in above comments… Rest appreciation my fellow bloggers have already posted😇
Keep writing and believe you are amazing… Just believe in yourself and you can achive miracles🤗🤗
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Oh utkarsh! Thanks a ton for reading. I am glad you found it good.
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Why wouldn’t I find it good? I am a great fan of your writings😉
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Oh God! Now that’s huge. I am overwhelmed.
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😀😀
Got motivation and confidence back?
Now you can write more awesome posts🤗
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Thank you.
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Ur always welcome😉
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Beautiful words of inspiration and encouragement written with amazing pictures. So agree with you depressed people need your love and compassion and then they do slowly come into the main frame of their lives again. Great post.
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Thank you so much!
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Welcome Bhavika.
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And I know, how many people will relate to it………
This is so, needed!
A big thank you for sharing….
Kudos
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Thanks a ton… It honestly means a lot.
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🙂
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We need more such, posts and bloggers!!!
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Thank you so much. Immensely honored by your appreciation. 🙂
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OMG!!! Arre don’t be so formal!!!
Hi!! name’s Ishan!! Pleasure meeting you!!!☺
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Hi Ishan! It was amazing meeting you too. Presence of writers and human beings like you here, make WordPress worth existing. 🙂
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Loved this! Loved how you have described the feelings. In few words you have said much. Keep going!
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Thank you so much Avinash!
It was necessary to bring this topic up. I am glad you liked it. Keep reading. 🙂
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Thanks for picking a very relevant yet renegade topic…the hopelessness and helplessness associated with depression can ultimately lead not only to mental loss of a person but also a physical loss in the form of ending one’s life…sadly people got to get help mostly for physical illness only and avoid going to a psychiatrist or a psychotherapist due to certain taboo attached to it…we can save many lives as treatment for these illnesses are there….we need to educate the society for this…by the way Sigmund Freud has rightly said there is some mental illness in all of us…so better watch who claim to be mentally healthy…😊😊😊😊
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So true. I completely agree with all that you said. Thank you so much for reading. Keep reading. 🙂
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Nice post….good work.
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Thanks a lot.!!
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This is sooo me….. I’m crying now…. Amazing and thanks for understanding. Depression is like dying inside. Carrying a dead body inside. It rots and weighs you down till you fall and crash
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Well said.. Please don’t cry. This really means alot to me.
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🙂 if only more people understood
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Yeah.u r right.my daughter is suffering in dis condition n taking d medicine.my all supporting n love are with her.bt i m not looking perfect improvment in her.she is decieved by one beloved.here i m helpless.
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Hello mam! I am so sad to hear about your daughter. Please make her indulge in all that she loves. Drawing, painting, singing etc. Whatever it is. And please continue the medical help. I will surely pray that she improves.
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Yeah.she does not want her love.now,for it,i know dt time is over.bt other things r intrested for her beside medicine.these are continued.thanks for ur sympathy n kind words.
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My best wishes are always with her. All my love and luck to her. 😊
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Woah that’s deep and so true!
People take such serious issues as a joke 😦
Helping someone who is depressed is such a great deed!
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Indeed it is! Depression as I said is fatal. We need to take it seriously. 😊
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That reminds me, I remember a post I read a few months ago and the main idea is to not insult anyone (the theme is related to depression) – this is not the post I was talking about but its part of it https://68.media.tumblr.com/7de32b6b856682143448789534911a2b/tumblr_npk3wf9VfR1r3zjipo6_1280.jpg
Shame people are so mean – calling someone depressed is horrible insult 😦
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It’s amazing.!
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Oh btw, Bhavika! 😀 I made a post in January, sharing a gif I made to make people more strong when in relation to depression, more into the tough side when they don’t feel like willing. I wasn’t feeling that awesome at that time and I thought this gif which I made during that moment would be positively benefical to others also experiencing my situation 🙂 Thought I share it with you since its related to depression 🙂 https://dwquotes.wordpress.com/2017/01/30/keep-strong-%e2%98%b9/
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Very true! Its what everyone needs to understand. You are doing a superb job here.
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Thank you so much! Means a lot! ☺️
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Loved it, its really truly the great deed to help someone out of depression. Depression is one state that one slides into slowly without knowing. Saving them is just realising how much you care about them.
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So true Sreepriya! As I mentioned, helping someone come out of depression is giving them a second life. It’s divine. ☺️
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Wow. Amazing.
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Thank you dear! ☺️
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You’re welcome 🙂
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Keep following to remain updated. I would love to hear your opinions on my posts. ☺️
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Ok ⭐️
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Thank you for your kind words indeed depression is not just its a lot.
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Indeed my friend!
Thank you for visiting☺️
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Awesome post !! Well said…
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Tention kai ko lene ka, bheja kyo sarkane ka ,,,
Don’t take overload.
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Depression is curable with love
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So true! Depression is an illness, just like any other kind and needs proper care and treatment. Thanks a lot for sharing this one!😊
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Thank you so much!! Keep visiting. ☺️
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You’re welcome! 😊
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Thank you for visiting my Blog! (and Nice Post:-)
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My pleasure. 😊 and thank you.
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So true.
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Depression can truly only be dissolved through love!
Great expressions. Keep posting. 🙂
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Thanks a ton Nishita 😊
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You made my day siss……. U defined the state of mind of many people and the cure
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And you made my day too. Thank you for supporting always. 😍
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We’re a gaggle of volunteers and opening a brand new scheme in our community. Your web site offered us with useful information to paintings on. You have performed a formidable activity and our whole community will likely be grateful to you.
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Thank you.
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This’ the ultimate truth. (It’s NOT JUST!!!) It’s a phase you wouldn’t wish for anyone to be through. Thanks for enlightening the world.
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Thank you so much. Please keep visiting. ☺️😊
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Thanks for sharing a post like this. Gave me enough strength. 💪😇
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Thank you so much! I am glad you liked it! 😊
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Funny thing is when you help your friends through depression and then realize you have it, too. Not haha funny, interesting-how-the-universe-works funny.
Came across an article on smiling depression the other day, wished I’d saved it. The worst thing with depression is even when you know what’s wrong, how to label it etc. it’s still hard (sometimes impossible) to get back on track. And the more you tell yourself to get over it, the angrier you get at yourself if and when you don’t manage to. But if you can ask for help from friends, you’re already halfway there. In my experience at least. Though, of course, everyone has a slightly different story to tell.
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I agree. ☺️ thank you for stopping by. Keep visiting. 😊
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Bhavika! What do I say to you. Generally, I don’t let out my emotions so easily. But I could relate to this post very much.
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Bhavika a good thought in deeded, many people doesn’t understand the emotional war an individual go through when he or she is depressed
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Totally accepted! Depression isn’t as easy as it’s spelling.! It’s devastating
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And just laugh over it. Its better left alone than having such people around.
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Agree😐
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I was once like this, mildly depressed. So this particular post resonated within the depths of my soul. It’s never that easy. Everyday, you need to constantly remind yourself to be happy and put away those sad thoughts. But what’s bothering me is how callously people shrug it of as “just depression…” Thanks for posring this!
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I hope you have crossed that stage now. It’s definitely one of the most difficult things to do. “living aimlessly”. Yeah! Depression is still one of the most underestimated phenomenon. 😐
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I have, writing definitely saved me from my ruin
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Wow! That is the power of an art. It is all time savior. 😃
Please keep visiting. Hope you enjoy here. ☺️
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In addition to your sensitive suggestions, those suffering from depression should seek medical treatment. Depression is a dangerous illness. It claims lives every year. And life is too precious to be lost. ❤
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So true! Couldn’t agree more! Thank you for dropping your previous comments. Please keep visiting. 😊
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Depression!! This reminds me of my friend who was so depressed and is no more with us!!
He is no more because he was bullied at college as well at home!!
I don’t know why people don’t take it serious, instead of making fun why don’t even a single hand can’t come up for help!!
This is a great post!! 👍🏻:(
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Mental sickness is often not taken seriously in our country. I don’t know why such patients are mocked or not supported.!
Thankyou so much for acknowledging it! I have tried to pick this subject up on my level.! 😊
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That your kindness as well as greatness to bring it up!! 👍🏻
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Oh! That’s so kind of you to say. But I guess it was my responsibility. ☺️
We, as writers, need to take up issues. Written is an art which can change minds. ☺️
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I agree!!! 😀 ✌🏻
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I am glad! 😊
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Spreading happiness now!! 😊 you should be glad
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Thats so sweet of you! ☺️
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👏🏻💐
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😊😊
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Interesting post here.Thanks for following my blog.
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Thankyou so much! Hope you enjoy my blog. Keep visiting. 😊
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I feel much happier after reading it. Anand Bose from Kerala
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Wow! You made my day by saying that! Thankyou so much. Please keep visiting. 😊
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It seems to be that depression is an epidemic. I suffer from it and anxiety. It is really crippling and lonely. I feel sympathize for everyone that has to go through it.
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Wow, well said 👏💐 5stars
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As a sufferer, thank you
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